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Monday, April 16, 2007

Personified Loneliness

post #166

Wanna write this entry since last week but I just couldn't find the time to do so. Last week prayer gath topic was about a very powerful feelings that human has but rarely being paid attention to. It's lonely....loneliness. Human has this need to be loved. When we don't get this...we feel lonely. Like there's no one who understands us. It feels hollow inside. There's this kind of void that eating us from the inside. Then what do we usually do to erase this lonely feeling? We bury ourselves in work, or any other activities, such as going to nite club, taking drugs (ok maybe this is a little too extreme..), hoping that the feeling, the loneliness would go away and we would be happy. But all these things actually only make us forget (temporarily) about the loneliness that we feel. When all the rush is over, we back to the state of being lonely. Even when we trying to get rid this loneliness, we still feel it sticking at the bottom of our heart...We still feel lonely though we're sorrounded by so many people.

Then the question is...how to really eliminate this feeling? Well, since we're talking in religious context, the answer is by filling ourselves with God's love. Breathe in as much as we can...then share it with people around us. Sometimes we're just too busy with our activities....maybe even in our life we're too busy to share some love that we forget to recharge ourselves. Just like Air Supply's song, We're all out of love...
So it's essential that we also take some times to kick back and enjoy quality times for ourselves, charging our love battery by connecting our heart n soul to God. That's the main idea that I concluded.

In general term, this loneliness can be eliminated if we find something...that makes our life complete. Each and everyone us have different
s things that would make us feel whole. Reminds me of my previous entry : Flying Without Wings

What if we become so used to the loneliness itself to the point we don't feel it anymore....that we consider it our best friend? what if we become numb...?

Backstreet Boys - Show Me The Meaning Of Being Lonely

So many words for the broken heart
It's hard to see in a crimson love
So hard to breathe
Walk with me, and maybe
Nights of light so soon become
Wild and free I could feel the sun
Your every wish will be done
They tell me

Chorus:
Show me the meaning of being lonely
Is this the feeling I need to walk with
Tell me why I can't be there where you are
There's something missing in my heart

Life goes on as it never ends
Eyes of stone observe the trends
They never say forever gaze, if only
Guilty roads to an endless love (endless love)
There's no control
Are you with me now
Your every wish will be done
They tell me

Chorus:
Show me the meaning of being lonely
Is this the feeling I need to walk with (tell me why)
Tell me why I can't be there where you are
There's something missing in my heart

Bridge:
There's nowhere to run
I have no place to go
Surrender my heart, body and soul
How can it be you're asking me to feel the things you never show

You are missing in my heart
Tell me why I can't be there where you are

Chorus:
Show me the meaning of being lonely
Is this the feeling I need to walk with (tell me why)
Tell me why I can't be there where you are (where you are)
There's something missing in my heart (you are missing in my heart)

Show me the meaning of being lonely (being lonely)
Is this the feeling I need to walk with (tell me why)
Tell me why I (can't be there) can't be there where you are
(where you are)There's something missing in my heart

3 Comments:

Anonymous said...

Some people take relationship as the solution to avoid loneliness as well... but I'm not sure whether we need a partner to make sure we are not lonely anymore

prince of darkness break for free said...

i think to eliminate loneliness we should fill our heart first,to be confident, to know that we are worthy loving, to believe that there is always someone be there for us.

prince of darkness break for free said...

i wonder why blogger is restricted by chinese government,coz although i can still writing my blog,it's impossible for me to get in ur blog nor mine's front page for nearly a month!


oh,yes.my msn:koala1188@hotmial.com

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