post #305
After a bit reminiscing wild nights we had back in univ times.....I couldn't stop thinking about the advice my friend gave me.
"Don't put yourself in things that might end up messy. Just use hookers, they're simple and practical. Use them whenever you need them. You get what you pay for, that's it. No more, no less."
Hmmmm.......do we, human (by this commonly men) tend to be promiscuous? Can't we pledge ourselves to a person throughout our (short) lives in this small world. I remember a line, but couldn't remember in what movie.
Q : Can we be monogamous?
A : You're in the wrong species, you should be a duck.
I was like....lolzz...lolzz.....
Reminded me again also about the conversation I had with David while I drove him home. So many examples of successful (read: has lots of money) men still fooling around outside their home, have second wife, have mistress(es)...some even have child from their second, third, and so on wives....*sigh...If that so I doubt I wanna be that successful. We both didn't want to become one of them. Was I just being too idealistic?
They still played the role of a good husband (even good father) for their 'primary' family....but outside the home, they're bachelor....some even with their wives' consent. Their wives knew, and they just close their eyes, as long as their husbands do not bring any STD back home and still manage to perform their responsibilities as the head of the family. If the husbands could still play their role well, it's okay, right? Or was it wrong?
In this crazy world....the line between white and black was so thin.....and there's hugeeeee gray area between those two.
Maybe the wives could tolerate their husbands because they see it just sex, without feelings and emotions involved...just simply lust...so they could forgive their husband's infidelity. Women were usually more scared if they found out that their husbands were having an affair which involved feelings with another woman....
I remember this quote from Love Actually. Alan Rickman played a middle aged husband who bought a necklace for his secretary. FYI, he's the one who played Severus Snape in Harry Potter. He's a very good actor. I didn't see Snape character at all in Love Actually....well done.
Karen: Tell me, if you were in my position, what would you do?
Harry: What position is that?
Karen: Imagine your husband bought a gold necklace and come Christmas gave it to somebody else...
Harry: Oh, Karen...
Karen: Would you wait around to find out if it's just a necklace, or if it's sex and a necklace, or if worst of all it's a necklace and love? Would you stay, knowing life would always be a little bit worse? Or would you cut and run?
Harry: Oh, God. I am so in the wrong. The classic fool.
Karen: [voice breaking] Yes, but you've also made a fool out of me, and you've made the life I lead foolish too.
Hmmm.....questions...
What is the definition of cheating?
What if the husband didn't cheat physically (by having sex) with another woman, but cheat emotionally; ie. have deeper feeling and being closer to another woman?
Which one is more tolerable? The physical or the emotional cheating?
Sure, each woman would have different answers. These kind of things really shook the idea of marriage, attacked the value of marriage....but gotta keep the faith, there were few examples of duck-men (if I may use the term) who could pledge themselves to a woman and a woman only. It's not easy....but hey life's never been easy....at least to most of us. Once you've made a choice, you gotta be ready to bear the consequences. So think thoroughly and choose wisely. I hope I could be one of those duck-men.
Ivy...A sweet, delicate poison....
Britney Spears - Toxic
Baby, can't you see, I'm calling
A guy like you should wear a warnin'
It's dangerous, I'm fallin'
There's no escape, I can't wait
I need a hit, baby give me it
You're dangerous, I'm lovin' it
[Bridge:]
Too high, can't come down
Losing my head,
Spinning 'round and 'round
Do you feel me now?
[Chorus:]
With a taste of your lips, I'm on a ride
You're toxic, I'm slippin' under
taste of a poison paradise
I'm addicted to you
Don't you know that you're toxic?
And I love what you do
Don't you know that you're toxic?
It's getting late to give you up
I took a sip from my devil's cup
slowly, It's taking over me
[Bridge]
Too high, can't come down
It's in the air and it's all around
Can you feel me now?
[Chorus:]
Don't you know that you're toxic?
(Taste of your lips I'm on a ride)
You're toxic, I'm slippin' under
With a taste of a poison paradise
I'm addicted to you
Don't you know that you're toxic?
With a taste of your lips, I'm on a ride
You're toxic, I'm slippin' under (Toxic)
With a taste of a poison paradise
I'm addicted to you
Don't you know that you're toxic?
Intoxicate me now
With your lovin' now
I think I'm ready now
(I think I'm ready now)
Intoxicate me now
With your lovin' now
I think I'm ready now.
After a bit reminiscing wild nights we had back in univ times.....I couldn't stop thinking about the advice my friend gave me.
"Don't put yourself in things that might end up messy. Just use hookers, they're simple and practical. Use them whenever you need them. You get what you pay for, that's it. No more, no less."
Hmmmm.......do we, human (by this commonly men) tend to be promiscuous? Can't we pledge ourselves to a person throughout our (short) lives in this small world. I remember a line, but couldn't remember in what movie.
Q : Can we be monogamous?
A : You're in the wrong species, you should be a duck.
I was like....lolzz...lolzz.....
Reminded me again also about the conversation I had with David while I drove him home. So many examples of successful (read: has lots of money) men still fooling around outside their home, have second wife, have mistress(es)...some even have child from their second, third, and so on wives....*sigh...If that so I doubt I wanna be that successful. We both didn't want to become one of them. Was I just being too idealistic?
They still played the role of a good husband (even good father) for their 'primary' family....but outside the home, they're bachelor....some even with their wives' consent. Their wives knew, and they just close their eyes, as long as their husbands do not bring any STD back home and still manage to perform their responsibilities as the head of the family. If the husbands could still play their role well, it's okay, right? Or was it wrong?
In this crazy world....the line between white and black was so thin.....and there's hugeeeee gray area between those two.
Maybe the wives could tolerate their husbands because they see it just sex, without feelings and emotions involved...just simply lust...so they could forgive their husband's infidelity. Women were usually more scared if they found out that their husbands were having an affair which involved feelings with another woman....
I remember this quote from Love Actually. Alan Rickman played a middle aged husband who bought a necklace for his secretary. FYI, he's the one who played Severus Snape in Harry Potter. He's a very good actor. I didn't see Snape character at all in Love Actually....well done.
Karen: Tell me, if you were in my position, what would you do?
Harry: What position is that?
Karen: Imagine your husband bought a gold necklace and come Christmas gave it to somebody else...
Harry: Oh, Karen...
Karen: Would you wait around to find out if it's just a necklace, or if it's sex and a necklace, or if worst of all it's a necklace and love? Would you stay, knowing life would always be a little bit worse? Or would you cut and run?
Harry: Oh, God. I am so in the wrong. The classic fool.
Karen: [voice breaking] Yes, but you've also made a fool out of me, and you've made the life I lead foolish too.
Hmmm.....questions...
What is the definition of cheating?
What if the husband didn't cheat physically (by having sex) with another woman, but cheat emotionally; ie. have deeper feeling and being closer to another woman?
Which one is more tolerable? The physical or the emotional cheating?
Sure, each woman would have different answers. These kind of things really shook the idea of marriage, attacked the value of marriage....but gotta keep the faith, there were few examples of duck-men (if I may use the term) who could pledge themselves to a woman and a woman only. It's not easy....but hey life's never been easy....at least to most of us. Once you've made a choice, you gotta be ready to bear the consequences. So think thoroughly and choose wisely. I hope I could be one of those duck-men.
Ivy...A sweet, delicate poison....
Britney Spears - Toxic
Baby, can't you see, I'm calling
A guy like you should wear a warnin'
It's dangerous, I'm fallin'
There's no escape, I can't wait
I need a hit, baby give me it
You're dangerous, I'm lovin' it
[Bridge:]
Too high, can't come down
Losing my head,
Spinning 'round and 'round
Do you feel me now?
[Chorus:]
With a taste of your lips, I'm on a ride
You're toxic, I'm slippin' under
taste of a poison paradise
I'm addicted to you
Don't you know that you're toxic?
And I love what you do
Don't you know that you're toxic?
It's getting late to give you up
I took a sip from my devil's cup
slowly, It's taking over me
[Bridge]
Too high, can't come down
It's in the air and it's all around
Can you feel me now?
[Chorus:]
Don't you know that you're toxic?
(Taste of your lips I'm on a ride)
You're toxic, I'm slippin' under
With a taste of a poison paradise
I'm addicted to you
Don't you know that you're toxic?
With a taste of your lips, I'm on a ride
You're toxic, I'm slippin' under (Toxic)
With a taste of a poison paradise
I'm addicted to you
Don't you know that you're toxic?
Intoxicate me now
With your lovin' now
I think I'm ready now
(I think I'm ready now)
Intoxicate me now
With your lovin' now
I think I'm ready now.
1 Comment:
isn't that male would rather his wife to cheat only emotionally than sexually if he has to chose one while female thinks the opposite?
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